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Most research focuses on the negative effects of violence on women, but not enough attention is given to potential positive outcomes. By understanding the importance of this perspective, it is essential to highlight the resilience and empowerment that can emerge from such experiences. A comprehensive, semi-structured interview was conducted with 10 Filipino women survivors of abuse to bridge this gap in the existing literature. This study explored the detailed experiences of these women, aiming to understand the deep meanings they associated with their overall survival journey. Results from Interpretative Phenomenological Analysis of qualitative data revealed that moving forward is reinforced by identifying sources of strength and a genuine acceptance of reality. Moreover, the findings established that women have the potential to harness resources and support from various spheres, including social networks, spirituality, employment, and even social media, to regain their empowerment. In the early phases of coping, the women primarily dealt with their emotional distress and sought instant relief. Over time, they were able to transcend their traumatic experiences, viewing their survival journey as a test of character, a journey of empowerment, affirmation and submission to God's purpose, a story brimming with hope and new possibilities, and a transformative shift in their perspective on marriage.

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